Saturday, June 4, 2011

But I’m Not Gay!

Y' know, not half bad!
 
These days I’m trying to figure out how I want to look as an older guy.

But I’m not gay.

Not that there’s anything wrong with that!

You see, I’ve begrudgingly begun to accept the fact that I have more than entered the “post-cute” phase of my existence here on the planet. I simply no longer have it within my power to be cute!

I can’t affect cute, I can’t imitate cute, I can’t in any manner conjure or implore cute. True, I can think cute and I can even act cute, but I can never again BE CUTE!

So, I’m spending an inordinate amount of time checking out plus 60 year old guys in an effort to figure out which one among them whose looks aren’t liable to cost anyone their lunch I may best repackage myself into resembling. It’s a daunting task.

And when you tend to spend your time staring intently at a lot of men, well, some may quite naturally think you’re looking to find a partner for Sunday brunch with waffles and ice cream followed by an afternoon of antiquing.

“That’s not a bad looking man,” I thought to myself the other day while staring excessively at an older dude who looked a bit like the actor Donald Sutherland. Yep, distinguished gray beard, professorial look, and I think … uh … he just winked at me!

Wondering how I might look in a very gray beard, I realized I’d probably more closely resemble Roy Rogers' sidekick Gabby Hayes than Donald Sutherland

“Hi,” said the professorial chap as he cheerily approached me. “Couldn’t help but notice you looking me over!”

“Oh, uh, hi,” I said. “I have to tell you I’m not gay.  

“Nor am I,” said pseudo - Sutherland. “I just didn’t want to disappoint you.”

Didn’t want to disappoint me?  

No, Hawkeye, I only want to resemble you, not ride you like a steer!

A bit later, I began scrutinizing a rather regal looking oldster with intriguing facial structure a la a less dissipated Malcolm McDowell.

He gave me a quizzical look, then a smile.

Busted again!

“I’m not gay,” I assured him as he sidled on up to me. “I just wanted to see if maybe I could affect cheekbones like yours with a bit of make-up."

“Don't be upset, my friend,” he replied warmly. “I am gay, very nice to meet you!”

Oh … oh... good,"  I stammered.  Not that there’s anything wrong with that!  Uhh, umm ...  meeting any nice gay guys?"

Unflappable as usual.

"I'm flattered you want to look like me," he said, "but you shouldn't worry. You look just fine." 

Not only did he turn out to be a very nice guy, he even let me take his picture so I could review it later  with my stylist.  I hope he meets a lot of nice gay guys going forward.

Frankly I’ve just got to get better at all this surreptitious scrutinizing. Or maybe just accept the fact that however I look is how I’m gonna look?

Hey, check out that guy over there!  Looks like the older Cary Grant!

But, of course, I'm not gay!

Hmm.  Wonder if he’s a good dancer….

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13 comments:

Linda G. said...

Go for Mark Harmon, of NCIS fame. He keeps getting better and better the grayer he gets. ;)

Perry Block said...

So many men, so little time ....

ULP! Did I say that?

Thanks for your comment, Linda!

Lexi said...

Mirrored sun glasses, that's what you want. Not to look cool, but so all these guys won't notice you staring at them.

Perry Block said...

But I'd also look cool, right, Lexi?

I said isn't that right, Lexi?

All right. At least they won't notice me staring at them....

K.D. McCrite said...

Perry, this post was just the cutest thing!

Perry Block said...

kd,

I thought I was the cutest thing!

Lexi said...

Of course you'd look cool in mirrored sun glasses, Perry. Saturnine and mysterious, too.

Thought that went without saying.

Perry Block said...

Yes, it goes without saying, Lexi. But the saying's always nice!

Wait a minute! Saturnine?

K.D. McCrite said...

Sheesh. You're right, I totally forgot that you are the cutest thing. In fact, if you and I were in a cute contest, we'd probably tie for the title.

Perry Block said...

kd,

Well, being I'm really only formerly cute, you'd win, April Grace would place, but depending on the field, I might finish in the money ....

Marisa Birns said...

Well, there's Sean Connery, and Paul Newman. They looked quite distinguished at 60.

You don't want people to call you "cute" when you're not eight years old.

Oh, then there was Derek Jacobi at 60.

But, he's gay...

Perry Block said...

Derek Jacobi is gay?! I loved him in "I Claudius."

I mean, his acting! You see, I'm not gay! Not that there's anything wrong with that!

Bryce Thomason said...

Some in the spiritual arena of thought accept as true that they "must stop" the "gay agenda, whatever that might be. Of course, there are folks who are very obstinate in the GLBT community about certain issues such as gay marriage and they demand to be heard and are vocal on the following stage over this debate. When I read the gentleman's essay arguing that no one is born gay, I certainly understood where he was coming from, as he felt as if the ""gay agenda" had come too far, and so, he is just as adamant about pushing back now.